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I Want Love He Wants Sex!   Recently updated !

The time old problem of a woman writing into the Guardian’s advice column who wants her husband to be more loving and then she will want more sex, and the husband who says he will be more loving if he has more sex:   Pamela Stephenson Conolly gives this wise reply: […]


Did You Know Dating Is A New Concept!

Interestingly dating is a relatively modern concept. In the past you did not choose a date you  “courted” to find someone who would be financially viable for you. Nichi Hodgson, author of The Curious History of Dating, explains that up until 1870, “women couldn’t keep property or money or goods […]


What Are Healthy Relationships? 

Here Are Some Clues: Love is a choice!  You can’t make someone love you or want to be your friend or partner.  However there are some ideas you could consider when thinking about your relationships and friendships: Healthy relationships are sacrificial Even if a cost is involved. For instance if […]


The Ten Traits Of A Co-Dependent

It can be helpful when assessing our relationships to understand what is a healthy relationship and what might not be – one classic example of a relationship that may not be healthy is a co-dependent relationship – take a look and see if you can see if any of these […]